Valerie also talks about her marriage
to Tom Vitale
, whom she tied the knot with in January 2011. "When he asked me I thought, 'Well, he's very old fashioned, and I want to do it for him.' But as soon as he put the ring on my finger I realized, no, I did it for me." Valerie says. "This is the man I love. I wanted to be able to say that this is my husband…but even husband doesn’t seem big enough for what he is in my life."