"When I first met Olivier, there wasn’t the initial 'I'm in love!' It was something that grew more gradually—and it feels more real because of that," Berry, 46, said of her 46-year-old beau, best known for his sexy role in Unfaithful
. "He's silly, a clown, and very much the life of the party, which is good for someone like me. Danny Downer…been there, done that. Now I like Louie Lightfoot!"
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