Though she hasn't come outright and spoken about her romance with Madden since the two were first spotted holding hands
this past June, Diaz did talk romance in Cosmopolitan
's January issue. "If you get into a relationship where you want something the guy doesn't want, it's never gonna work," she said. "You're never going to get him to be in that place. No matter how old you are, finding the guy who's in the same place as you are and wants to show up is the only way a relationship works, period."