you're a mother, do you ever have to stop yourself from hovering?
I think it's
probably a universal experience that all parents think they're not hovering,
but perhaps we all are.
book, Instant Mom, you talk about how your daughter made the case why
everyone should be able to marry everyone. How has your daughter's comments
furthered your views on gay marriage and equality?
The candid and
honest and pure heartedness of children has strengthened my views that we are
all equal and should be afforded the basic human rights that we all deserve. My
feeling with the gay community is we all pay taxes. There's no reason whatsoever
that some of these states have these incredibly discriminatory laws. There's no
reason whatsoever that we can't use our money to speak up for ourselves when
we're talking about discrimination. Why I say "ourselves" is because it's not a
gay issue or a straight issue, it's a human issue and we're all connected in
this film and Connie and Carla as well as a few of your TV appearances,
you've touched on a number of gay stories. What is it about the gay community
that you feel connected to? Has it always been a part of your life?
been there. From the time I was in theater when I was seven and I saw my
colleagues struggling to be honest with their families and the difficulties
that children face living an authentic life. And now the incredibly serious
situation we have with bullying and with children not being able to live a full
transgender life. It's heartbreaking and it's sickening. We absolutely have to
support our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters. We just must. It's not fair
that they don't get to live an authentic life.
passionate about it--always have been--but even more so as it gets more and more
serious. When I open my computer in the morning and see another teen has
committed suicide it breaks my heart, as it should. I can't be the only parent
amazing that we've had a more open conversation about transgender issues in the
media this past year.
Yes, I'm very
angry when people are at all dismissive of the situation that Bruce Jenner is
going through. We need to absolutely support him--the only reason I'm even
commenting on it is because he's going public. It's a private issue, but you
get one chance at this life and you have to be happy.
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gears: You said that you're about to start filming My Big Fat Greek Wedding
2. What can fans look forward to with that film?
the plot and the script under serious lock and key. I've even written fake
audition scenes. The most exciting thing for me is that the entire cast is
coming back. Even though we've remained friends over the years and gone for
dinners together and seen each other, when we had the table read--about four weeks ago--it was
the first time we were all in the same room with the new director all together
and I just cried. I thought, "Wow. I had said no for so long to doing the
sequel." But you really know when it's time, because I feel right about it now.
Obviously, the story is about me being a mom. And as you know from my book, I
had written I was a mom at the end of My Big Fat Greek Wedding, but the
struggle to become a mom was so difficult for me that there was no way I could
do the sequel directly after the film because I was in a private, secret hell
of trying to become a mom. After the book tour I felt so healed, going out
there and talking about the difficulties I faced without feeling sorry for
myself. That happened! And then I got to adopt to my daughter. I'm so grateful
I couldn't have a biological child, because she's my daughter. I'm thrilled that
what happened happened to me. It healed my brain. And I thought, "Oh! It is
time to write about what it's like to be a mom." And that's why I wrote
Mom is in select theaters and on Video on Demand this Friday, April 24.
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