ET spent some quality time with Cosmopolitan's Bachelor of the Year Thursday night in New York! The big winner was Ohio native BRIAN WATKINS, 23, a biotechnology and business administration student.

Brian spills some secrets -- and his sweet spot -- in the November issue, on stands now. "The back of my neck," he says. "Feeling a woman's fingers in my hair is paralyzing."

And if he could choose to have one superpower it would be to read a woman's mind. "I'd write a book about it to help out other guys," he says, "since we're all in the dark!"