In a new exclusive one-on-one interview with ET's Mary Hart, Hailey Glassman is asked directly, "Are you and Jon [Gosselin] breaking up?" The answer is not so simple, especially since Jon surprised everyone by coming to the interview with Hailey and sitting just a few feet away.

Glassman, tearful at times, confided, "This has taken a massive toll on me Mary, I'm only 22!" says the woman in the middle of TV's messiest divorce. "I've tried to move on in all honesty. He and I need to sit down and talk."

Upon returning to New York, Jon released an exclusive statement to ET confirming that indeed he would be taking some time apart from Glassman. "Hailey says she thinks it's a good idea that we both take some time right now and focus on each of our individual lives. It is important for me to go back to Pennsylvania and be with my children and get through this divorce and decide what I truly want out of life."

What led up to this statement and this moment in Jon Gosselin's life can be seen on Entertainment Tonight in a three part series beginning Monday night. The tension in the room was palpable as the father-of-eight listened to Hailey talk about his shortcomings, their arguments, and why she didn't think she could go on seeing him. Mary told him that the only way ET viewers would get the truth about this relationship is for both of them to sit down and answer her questions. Will he or won't he, this to be revealed Monday night on ET.