"I have to give credit to my husband for sharing those views. It's awesome how it all worked out," she tells Cosmopolitan South Africa's February issue. "We women think with our hearts and with our minds. When we see a guy, we envision what he's like and whether this could be something special. Guys see us from an exterior point of view -- that's something I learned along the way as a woman."
The 31-year-old singer says there were benefits to remaining celibate while dating Wilson. "I really believe that when you focus on a friendship, you have the opportunity to build a strong foundation for a relationship -- and once you know you're really great friends and you're what we call 'equally yoked,' where you share the same values or the same outlook on life, it kind of sets the tone," she explains. "Knowing that you'll always have the friendship and that you can always go back to it is very important, and very powerful."
After tying the knot, the newlyweds joked on Snapchat about their intimate honeymoon plans. "So, baby, you know what we’re doing tonight," Ciara said. Wilson quipped: "And what we did last night, I want to do multiple times."