Fred was introduced to viewers as Lindsay's old charge when she worked as a camp counselor -- and that's how the Bachelorette has continued to see him since night one.
Fred has been determined to change that, however, and on Monday's episode, he decides to show Lindsay that he's "not a boy anymore"... by asking for a kiss!
"I've been waiting to kiss her for like 20 years, man. But I just don't know when the timing will be right. I don't want to rush it, because I know that that kiss will be a sign if we're meant to be together or we're not," he says to the camera. "I'm a man, I'm not a boy anymore, and I hope that she sees that as well."
Despite his preparation, things don't seem to go very smoothly during his one-on-one time with Lindsay.