Despite her on-again, off-again relationship with Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez tells Seventeen magazine that she's yet to find the right guy, but she has found a famous friend to chat with about boys.
Gomez, 21, is adamant about never changing for a guy, telling the magazine, "I actually talked to Katy Perry about guys who are intimidated by strong girls. I haven't found someone yet who could understand my lifestyle, support it, love me through it, and not be threatened by it."
The Love You Like a Love Song singer adds, "It's hard. I do think I might scare some guys, because I'm like, 'I want to change the world! I have dreams! What do you want to do?' But I only know how to be me."
Though she seems to have been unlucky in love, Gomez had a great year. "This year is when I really started feeling powerful," she says. "I had always been the underdog secretly. I was on Disney when it was Miley [Cyrus], the Jonas Brothers and Demi [Lovato]. I questioned the way I looked, acted, sang and wrote. Then I turned 20, went through a really bad breakup, and realized I needed to have Come & Get It be amazing. I wanted it all to be me. I'm glad it's taken me this long to get where I am because now I am ready for it."