'RHONY' Exclusive: The Ladies Compare Tragedies During Dorinda's Birthday Dinner

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Leave it to these housewives-especially Heather-to go toe-to-toe on who has it worse.

Poor Dorinda cannot catch a break.

The newest housewife has been struggling all season to enjoy
a few drinks and a few laughs with her fellow cast mates. But no matter how hard
she tries to remain cool about it all, the girls find a way to make her
flustered as they inevitably put their drama on her.

Last week was no different when Dorinda’s birthday dinner
was ruined after LuAnn and Ramona got into it over who said what about Dorinda’s
(sleazy) boyfriend, John. Of course, this all took place right in front of the
couple.

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And it doesn’t look like it gets better for the Upper East
Sider in tonight’s episode of The Real
Housewives of New York CIty
. When all the women -- minus Bethenny and Sonja -- gather
at her home in the Berkshires, Dorinda’s birthday dinner part deux is ruined,
yet again.

In an exclusive preview, Carole, LuAnn, Kristen, and Ramona
compare personal tragedies, but Heather tops the group with one of her own: the
loss of her nanny after nine years of service. Needless to say, the ladies are
not impressed. But things get really interesting when Ramona attempts to offer
much needed advice on how to grieve and overcome. 

To Dorinda’s birthday! Yay.

The Real Housewives of New York City airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. on
Bravo. For more on Bethenny's return to the show, watch below: