EXCLUSIVE: Ashley Graham Reveals How Her Mother Talked Her Out of Giving Up on Her Modeling Dreams
By Zach Seemayer
This video is unavailable because we were unable to load a message from our sponsors.
If you are using ad-blocking software, please disable it and reload the page.
EXCLUSIVE: Ashley Graham Reveals the 'Come to Jesus' Moment That…
‘The Blind Side’ Producers Speak Out Amid Michael Oher and Tuohy…
Jessica Simpson's Daughter Crashes Her Interview as She Shuts Do…
Watch Zendaya Support Boyfriend Tom Holland During Basketball Ga…
Watch Tia Mowry and Gabrielle Union Show Off Their Dance Moves o…
Alexandra Paul, Canadian Olympic Figure Skater, Dead at 31
’90 Day Fiancé’: David Hides His Nerves From Sheila as He Prepar…
'Claim to Fame' Winner Gabriel on Brother Nick Cannon's Reaction…
Kathy Griffin Documents Getting Lips Tattooed and Shares the Sho…
’90 Day Fiancé’: Sex Therapist Helps Michael and Angela Be More …
The New ‘Bachelor’ Season 28 Lead Revealed: What to Know About J…
How to Make Watermelon Gin Coolers
Bethenny Frankel Reacts to Rachel Leviss Interview Backlash, Dou…
Nia Vardalos Highlights Must-See Moments From 'My Big Fat Greek …
Angelina Jolie's New Middle Finger Tattoos: Why Fans Are Specula…
Terry Funk, WWE Hall of Famer, Dead at 79
'My Big Fat Fabulous Life's Whitney Way Thore Passionately Slams…
'Bottoms': Ayo Edebiri and Rachel Sennott on Playing Teens in R-…
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Set to Attend the Invictus Games …
Ashley Graham has had a powerful impact on the fashion industry's preconceived notions about body shape and image positivity, and she's becoming an inspiring role model for many aspiring fashion models -- and Graham says it's all because of her mom.
Graham sat down with ET's Jennifer Peros at Barnes & Noble on Tuesday, where the 29-year-old model was promoting her new memoir, A New Model: What Confidence, Beauty and Power Really Look Like, and she opened up about how she almost gave up on her dreams long before she found real success.
"I really had to step back and say, 'OK, am I looking for love through sex? Am I looking for love through food? Am I looking for love through the affirmation of fashion people who don't understand my body?'" she shared. "I had to really have, like, a come to Jesus moment."
For Graham, that moment came when she was 19 years old and called her mom to tell her that she didn't want to continue pursuing her passion.
"I said, 'I can't do it anymore, I'm coming home. This is it,' and she said, 'No, no, you're not coming home. Your body is going to change someone's life and New York needs you. The fashion industry needs you,' and I stayed," Graham recounted.
Aside from convincing her to continue on her journey to becoming a world-class model, Graham also credits her mom for instilling in her a diligent work ethic and powerful tenacity.
"My mom is the product of two farmers, and she had to really work hard," said Graham, who was born and raised in Lincoln, Nebraska. "So she grew up with work ethic and determination and drive, and [the idea that] when you start something, you finish it. So that's how she raised me and my sisters."
In her new book, Graham gets very candid about her relationship with her mom, as well as her distant relationship with her father, who she said was "a little more absent" in her life, which effectively shaped who she became when she got older.
"It made me realize what I wanted in a man and what I wanted in a husband," Graham shared. "And also, who I am as a woman to men, because for so long I didn't know how to have a relationship with men because it was based on what I had growing up."
"I actually had to teach myself what it was like to have a relationship with a man and not base it on what I felt at home," she added.
Dunham explained how her weight loss has been a result of an "anxiety disorder," existential and direct fear related to the presidential election and its aftermath, and a multitude of other factors that had nothing to do with caring about how she looked in a dress.
"I don't think media's ever gonna change, but I think it's important that people like Lena Dunham, Amy Schumer, and me, and many more women, stand up and say, 'Guess what, this is what's really going on," Graham shared.