TV The Woman Calling the Shots in Chef Gordon Ramsay's Life Published 4:33 PM PDT, July 23, 2014 ETONLINE He's one of TV's toughest chefs (and worth a reported $118 million), but get ready to see a softer and sweeter side of Gordon Ramsay.In a joint interview with Gordon and his wife of 18 years, Tana, the normally gruff chef totally dropped his guard."He can be very romantic," said Tana, who will appear as a surprise guest on FOX's MasterChef next Monday. "He's very thoughtful ... sometimes."Related GalleryPICS: Star Sightings The couple shares four children who also know a different version of Gordon."When it comes to the kids, he's a total pushover, especially now that they're teenagers," said Tana. "Anything I say isn't suitable."Watch the video for more.