"Just don't pay attention," the 45-year-old actress says. "I think I used to… really, there was a period where I was hell-bent on saying, 'That's not true, that's not right, that's not fair.' And now I just think you have to let it roll off your back, and you realize, I think everyone knows it's all B.S. and like soap opera on paper."
As for how she maintains a happy and healthy relationship with her fiance, she tells Cowan, "The main thing is to try to just keep refocusing back on what you know is true and what makes you guys happy and, you know."