Giving a baby up for adoption after going through the full process of pregnancy can take a toll on a mother, but as we see in ETonline's exclusive clip of I'm Having Their Baby, it can also be hard on the mother's family.
"We don't give our kids up for adoption. We raise our children regardless of how hard it is," Nicol's mother says, disapproving of her decision to give her child away to married adopted parents.
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As Nicol's mother continues to express her displeasure with Nicol's decision, she even offers to adopt the child herself, but Nicol stiffly rejects her.
Check it out in the clip above, and tune in to the full episode of I'm Having Their Baby tonight at 11 p.m. on Oxygen.