On Tuesday, the 51-year-old actress shared a happy black-and-white photo of the two on Instagram, but the message was anything but. Anderson accused 33-year-old Rami of cheating on her and lying about it.
"It’s hard to accept ?," she writes. "The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe ... we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ?"
"But this is worse," she continued. "He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this - I’m sure there were others. He is the monster. How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself."
Rami also posted about their breakup on Instagram, and denied cheating on Anderson.
"A break is never really easy," he writes in French. "Often in these situations, emotion can take over and we let it express excessively. Pamela is someone whole, who I respect, who has convictions and who is sincere in her struggles and for whom my love was always sincere. That’s what I want to remember (or hold on to). I don’t think we should talk about our intimacy, our history, which belongs to us. On this point, I want to shed light. At no point did I live a double life, I am simply determined to preserve a lasting relationship with my children and their mother, Sidonie, for whom I have a deep respect. It’s true that I should have being more transparent in this relationship. I take responsibility."
" ... I wish for privacy and discretion for our families and friends, even if I am pained and hurt," he continues. "I hope you understand and respect this."
Anderson's relationship turn is a sharp contrast from last July, when she was snapped happily supporting Rami at France's World Cup match against Belgium, while wearing a huge diamond ring. A source told ET a the time that Anderson and Rami were "headed in the direction" of an engagement.
"Their love is one that is very private, precious and personal," the source said. "Pamela has never been so private about a relationship before; it’s different than all the others. She’s learned that being public from the get-go doesn’t always work out in the long run."
"Well, one good thing is that we try to keep that private because he has his world, I have my world, and that’s not something we want to talk about because we really want to protect our privacy," she said. "But, yes, I’m very happy. I’m very happy and I love France."
"My mom is so funny because every time she sees me and ... [I] want to complain about certain things she goes, 'Oh, stop! You’re happy! Look at your face. Deal with it!'" she continued. "Just, you know, there’s more good than bad. There’s more good than bad!"
The former Baywatch star also reflected on being married four times, including to musicians Tommy Lee and Kid Rock. Anderson told ET she was most attracted to passionate and honest men.
"I've had some great loves," she noted. "Well, love and loving, as you know, it does go hand in hand. And the best lovers are the most passionate people, the most honest people and, you know, I like to really get to know somebody. I'm really into being with someone who's committed and then maybe that's why I've been married so many times. But it didn't work out and, people may misunderstand, I haven't been with a lot of men in my life. I've been with a few men, and I've married them and I believe in a monogamous relationship -- that's the fun part for me."
Meanwhile, Anderson made an appearance on MTV's The Hills: New Beginnings season premiere on Monday, thanks to her 28-year-old son Brandon -- her oldest child with Lee -- who is a new cast member on the revival. Anderson visited Brandon at his new home, and in one of the most memorable scenes from the premiere, almost saged his private parts while trying to get bad energy out of the home.